We’re still unpacking, our house is far from tidy and sometimes when they stop by, it’s at an inconvenient time.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My partner and I like to entertain, and we have the means to do so regularly. We often invite neighbors over, but we omit one specific neighbor (whom we see regularly ...

It would not only be cruel, it would be rude and self-serving -- assuming it was meant to justify your feeling good about ...