2021年1月25日 · FA have less Issues showing emotion. We are sooo loving in the first few months. DA can be for awhile but turtle shell MUCH quicker. FA will tend to be more co-dependant. We hide emotions. Da will tell you what they do and do not like. It bothers people and are often confused as jerks. FA tend to be more open while DA are aloof.

2023年2月18日 · In theory, FA ought to be as similar to AP as it is to DA but I see FA/AP similarities mentioned at about a 1:99 ratio compared to FA/DA similarities. Personally, I think the attachment style categories are a bit 'mushy' - people tend to have their default level of anxiousness and avoidance, but can move up/down in those traits depending on ...

2020年6月27日 · Where is the difference between a FA and a DA? I’m totally new to the attachment styles and try to figure out what style the person is with whom I’m in a situationship with. Also is a mix between anxious and secure possible? Because that’s what my results were.

2022年1月5日 · I'm a FA (working on secure with a therapist--I also have PTSD). My possible partner (now friend) is a DA. As an FA, I showed both the anxious and avoidant side. I started of zen and so did he, but his DA was on the unhealthy spectrum (the types that clearly have issues but won't admit it and get help). Things were perfect, and then, he changed.

2021年5月16日 · FA/DA means the FA tends to lean more on the avoidant side than the anxious side on average. For DAs, they have an 'organized strategy' for attachment. There is a consistency in them wanting space in response to almost all types of issues and conflict.

2020年10月5日 · Ive heard about how DA’s turn FA’s into hardcore AP’s but I think if the FA is aware that avoidance is not personal, that pain could be avoided. it’s all about compassion and understanding. Both partners have to be committed to growing and developing a nurturing, safe, and playful relationship.

2020年7月15日 · As an FA person, I can understand both the AP and DA responses to relationships. When I’m in AP mode and want reassurance I’m tempted to text my partner more and read into his behaviour, and these feelings exist because of my attachment.

2023年5月4日 · I think what distinguishes FA from DA, is FA is emotionally from okay, suddenly unable to continue if the partner did something that makes them feel hurt, or it is a deal breaker, they will deactivate immediately, and quit the relationship because in that moment, they feel disrespected, and we tend to have low self-esteem compared to the DA.

2023年11月8日 · TLDR: a confusing deactivation situation with an FA leaning DA person, unsure whether to contact her again or accept that the deactivation is closure. I'm testing right on the border of AP and FA, which checks out tbh. I got into a many month situationship with someone who is FA leaning DA.

2021年10月28日 · DA person expresses vulnerability some, somewhat easily, but clearly weird about it. DA says future-type things that never amount to anything. I get disappointed, but try to communicate effectively, indicate that I care, give them some space.