2024年12月18日 · In my case I'm very sensitive to sounds and smells, but also to others' emotions & atmosphere around, so just being around people often overwhelms me. I went through some messy things during the childhood and school time. I'm also gay and I'm so sorry to say that, if you're reading it, but it makes me feel like it's my fault.

2023年11月30日 · I've felt a lot of things over the years - it's my fault because I didn't say no, it's my fault because I was asking for it, it's my fault because I should have told someone and I didn't When he finally moved out, I was upset. I felt abandoned. It left a strange hole that is still there thirty plus years later.

2023年6月5日 · TRIGGERS ! there will be triggers here...I have already talked in detail about my abuse and have kept a digital diary on here of my consoling sessions...

2022年1月4日 · It read, “I’m not a peace. I keep feeling like it’s my fault. I should’ve seen this coming.” I was fine about a month ago, but over the last week I feel overwhelmed with emotion and doubt. I also have hate in my heart for this narcissist asshole. I really wish I didn’t and in fact want to forgive him. I think that would help me move on.

2023年8月31日 · Scrambling my nervous system in an effort to cope…. Or to avoid integration is really what it felt like. A desperate attempt to separate, isolate, amputate, disown my wounded being. That it’s my fault - dragging this out of the past and creating harm.

2024年6月25日 · People shouldn't rape other people. People who decide to rape are the ones who are at fault and need to be punished to the fullest extent of the law. What was done to you was not your fault. You are blameless. Your friend is wrong. Please do your best to take care of yourself in light of this revelation. It's another shock to your system.

2024年10月21日 · Healing is possible! It just takes time. Be gentle with yourself. It's a process of letting go and it's a grieving process. Forgiveness is up to you. Realizing it was not your fault and that the abuse is a reflection of your abuser is the key. Focus on hobbies and things that make you happy. We're all responsible for our own happiness.

2024年7月27日 · For me it is the constant guilt I have knowing that I was never told my rights as a victim and that I could press charges against my attacker and now I can’t f do I it anymore due to my state’s statute of limitations and since he was never properly punished for what he did that he is still hurting people the same way and it’s all my fault ...

2023年5月7日 · Most rapists and abusers insist that we tempted them A friend of mine has a big well behaved dog it s black it s vicious and mostly stays caged , but again , he seems behaved . The owner once brought him some ham and he viciously almost bite the hand of the owner and was crazy by the smell and...

2022年11月1日 · I set aside this year, 2022, to acknowledge, and heal from the abuse. I have pretty much cut them out of my life. But this is also painful, because they were my family, and it's hard to acknowledge that they don't really love me, they are just using me. Now it's close to the end of the year. I use Facebook groups about narcissistic abuse as my ...